what does it really mean to love people?
The word “love” is everywhere in our culture today. We say “I love you” frequently, but how often do we pause to consider what it truly means to love someone? Is it merely a feeling of affection and acceptance, or does it encompass something deeper?
The Bible gives us a powerful definition of love that goes far beyond feelings. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Paul the Apostle writes:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love in Action
Recently, I’ve found myself reflecting on how I express love in my own life. I may experience feelings of love toward those around me, but is my love resulting in action? It’s easy to say that I love my husband, but do I keep a record of his wrongs? I may care deeply for my siblings, but am I always patient with them? Love, as God defines it, is a deliberate choice to act in ways that reflect kindness, humility, grace, and perseverance.
In Ephesians 4:2-3, Paul writes, “Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.”
The Ultimate Example of Love
Ultimately, we love because God first loved us. God’s love for you and me wasn’t just words—it was a profound act of sacrifice. John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” God’s love moved Him to give everything for us, even when we did not deserve it.
God’s love should compel us to love others with the same grace and compassion. In John 13:34-35, Jesus tells us, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” It’s through our actions that the world will see the love of Jesus in us.
Practical Applications of Love
Love is being patient and showing grace to our friends instead of keeping a record of their wrongs. It is choosing kindness over gossip, even when we feel hurt or misunderstood. It is being grateful for what we have rather than letting envy take root in our hearts. It is assuming the best of our co-workers instead of assuming the worst. This week, let’s put love into action and make a tangible difference in our relationships. Remember, love isn’t just about what we feel; it’s about what we do. When we reflect God’s love in our actions, we honor Him and brighten the world with His light.
